Grief over my husband's death.

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68 years old female grief over my husband,sister&brother who all died a month apart.can't eat or sleep so depressed & alone.what can I do?what to theory i stopped wasn't helping meds made me tired.

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Hi, sorry for your loss. You seem to suffer post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD), a disorder characterized by experiencing dramatic events. What meds did you use that were ineffective? You may need to talk to a therapist and take some time to travel. Time will heal everything.

Ho much time. My son passed away fou years ago and I just can't get over it
Hi patti. I'm so sorry to hear that. You must love your son very much, and so does he love you. But no one can live forever. You know, sometimes we just have to let them go, and life still moves on.
Grief is an inevitable part of our life and the loss of someone can often hit us than we expect. We all know that death is the final destination of everyone, so we have to accept the fact. It is vital that you stay connected with others during this time and don’t grieve alone. Be patient with yourself, allow yourself to feel whatever you feel and do something creative to express your feeling. If you are really struggling, seeking professional grief counseling is essential for you.

I‘m so sorry to hear that. Grief is an ordinary response to the loss of the one you love. I’ve such feelings when my grandma passed away. Loneliness, sadness and desperation gathered together and it lasted for a long time. It’s helpful to talk with friends and try to be grateful for what you have. BUT easier said than done, it’s tough to go through, I know.

Take care of yourself, and seek support, really hope you well!

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In tears... Thank you!

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I am so sorry for your loss but please know you are not alone. They are with you in your heart, the smell of the flowers, soft winds outside and all the memories that come to mind. You will see them again one day and between now and then will be hard take peace in knowing they're waiting for you. Some days will be harder than others but try to send a card to someone else who's hurting or sick. Pray always, God's with you. My mom used to talk to my dad just like she did when he was alive. Try that if you can. It helped her and I hope it helps you through the days ahead. God bless you and may His angels surround you with their loving presence. I'll pray for you as I pray for many others.

Hi Beverly, I am so sorry that you are going through such heartache all at once. You must be a very strong soul, or have a very large mission in life. I have been through so much death and heartache myself over my lifetime, so I know where you are. I know it feels hopeless and overwhelming at times, and it is a long road to recovery.. But there are things that helped me more than others.. The most important thing that helped me is realizing that i'm still here for a reason.. and I made it my mission to find out what that was. Counseling early on didn't help me, I found that every time I shared my story I relived all the pain, making it even more real and overwhelming for me. I got a lot more relief from hypnosis, it helped me separate myself from the pain so i could deal with it easier. and as I healed and the time passed, I found it easier and easier to talk about it and tell my story. I also recently found a new procedure called Ketamine micro drip. This Drug is now being administered under medical supervision, to treat depression, and is also being used in the military to treat stress and PTST. I had these treatments to help deal with all my PTST, grief, and depression. I can tell you, it made a dramatic difference! there are many studies coming out on this treatment that you can look up on the internet. I highly suggest it! it helps change the receptors in the brain, so you can perceive things differently.  I wish you all the strength in the world, and that you heal quickly!